How to utilize the summer vacation ?https://satyasaroj.blogspot.com/2019/06/1-1.html
(Hindi version) The most awaited summer vacations have begun for the kids and parents. Its main objective is to provide some relief to the children from the unbearable heat. During this vacation, children get a chance to do something different apart from their school studies. Our educationists have made provision for summer vacations only so that we can spare some time for our surroundings, relatives and for the development of our personality. This is the time when parents can strengthen their bond by spending time with their children. During this, children can also learn something new and they also have proper social and personal development in the family environment. Must do the following things during the summer vacation.
Some scholar has said that family is the
first school of any person. In the
present circumstances, we are not able to follow this. So, spend more and more time with the children
during the holidays. Give them moral education and also tell small
inspirational stories. With this, their knowledge will also increase and
positive thinking will also develop.
Try to educate them in simple manner. You can develop mental ability of the child by
playing with them. Tell the children
about your childhood and your family history. To make your relationship with
children sweeter, you may also become a child and play with them every day
their favorite games like hide and seek, carrom, chess, cricket etc. Take lunch and dinner with your kids and tell
them about its production of the crops.
It may be
that you have a servant to cleans the utensils in your house but encourage the
children to wash their plates themselves after eating. This will make them realize that no work is
small and they will also understand the value of hard work. Also teach children
to help the poor and needy. For this, you will have to do this work yourself also.
Cooking is a skill that always helpful in our life. You
can take their help in small tasks in your kitchen. If they are aware of about this,
then you will not have to face any trouble during your illness or any other
important occasion.
During the holidays, let the children familiar to maternal
uncle-aunt, grandmother-grandfather, uncle-aunt etc. Relationships became strong from childhood. If
the children meet these relatives again and again, then their relations will
get stronger, otherwise these relations will be limited to books only.
Don't let such a situation come that due to the
distance of the houses, there is a distance in the relations and when the
children meet their relatives on any marriage or other occasion, they do not
even recognize each other. So, keep
meeting each other at regular intervals. For this, there can be no better
option than summer vacations.
If you live in the city, take your kids to visit
your native villages during summer vacations. By this they will be aware of our
tradition and culture. The elders of the house can play an important role in
giving positive lessons to the children. Let them mingle with relatives. Their
love and emotional support is essential for your children. Do capture these
memorable moments in the camera.
Social understanding is also important
In the busy routine of school, many times children
are not able to even go to their friend’s
house. So, during the holidays, take them to visit their close friends. With
this you will also be able to get familiar with their parents and make new
friends.
Along with this, you should also take the children
to the homes of relatives and friends around you. This will give them a chance
to mingle with new people which is very important for a better life. During
this period, you can also build intimacy with some unknown people.
Take your children with you to the market during
the holidays and teach them to buy groceries/ house hold items by weighting themselves. Their maths
will be strengthened by the measurement of things, information about price and
calculation of price.
Give children a good and positive book to read apart from the school curriculum. They can be given good children's literature, biographies of great persons and other informative books. Encourage them to go to the library and ask them to write down what they read. This will develop their writing ability.
Give children a chance to understand themselves and
let them mature on their own. Sometimes also praise the work done by the
children which will encourage them. There will be mistakes in the work done by
them, be ready for that. Do not scold them but explain them and give them a
chance to learn from their mistakes.
Take for a tour:
During this vacation, take some time out to visit
India and visit some cool place nearby. This not only entertains the children,
but also increases their knowledge. Also take a tour of important historical
and religious places nearby and explain the importance of that place. It would
be better if you try to explain it on the map of India as well. For this, a
political atlas of India can be kept together.
Do not take the help of Google at all. After coming
back from these places ask the children to write down their experiences in a
diary. It will be helpful in their project work.
Introduce to nature
Take out some time and introduce the children to nature.
Take them for a tour of the garden and let them identify
the different type of trees and plants studied in the books.
Develop such understanding
in them that they can identify trees and plants by looking at them. For this,
you can also take them to the zoo and visit your village or any nearby village.
If you get a chance, involve them in the games being played by the children of
the villages. This will give them something new to learn. During the tour of the village,
you should also introduce them to the river-pond etc. Make them also realize
that how the people of the villages live in adverse conditions and in the midst
of scarcity.
Gardening is such a work that gives peace and makes
the mind happy. Explain the importance of trees to the children and motivate
them to plant trees. It is the best way to connect kids with the nature. Bring
them different types of seeds and give them to plant in pots. Leave the
responsibility like watering, fertilizing and hoeing on them. Children will be
very happy when they see these plants growing. This develops a sense of
responsibility in them.
Summer vacations are long. So that the child does
not get bored, he can be taught something new according to his choice. They can
be given additional education in swimming, painting, music, cooking etc. and
their energy can be used properly.
Try to keep children away from mobile. If you keep
them busy in other creative works then their attention will not go towards
mobile. During this, take care of the health of the children so that they do
not fall sick. Make sure to give them nutritious food and seasonal fruits.
Drinking more water will also be beneficial. By following all these, we can
make proper use of our child's holidays. This will prove to be a memorable
moment for him.
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3 comments:
Sir, "Your insights on parenting are incredibly valuable! I particularly resonate with your emphasis on fostering a nurturing environment while also allowing room for growth and independence. Keep sharing your wisdom!"
First learning starts at home, with first Gurus as parents.
It's beautifully written...and it will surely strike a positive note in the readers.
Bahut Sunder
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